Perspectives in Parenting

I am sure you have all heard the discussions on the Don't Say Gay bill that has been gaining momentum in Florida and recently Louisiana. As an ally to the LGBTQIA+ community and a mom to a 16-year-old and 11-year-old kid, I wanted to make sure my kids were being loving, accepting, and affirming friends to their classmates. One of my favorite quotes and reminders to my kids (and us adults, too) is "Be careful who you hate, it could be someone you love." I did not find the source of this quote but to me, this speaks to me because we never know how someone is feeling and as good humans, we should be showing love and never...

Am I Lucky? This was a random Google search only because I was curious about what would come up first and be interesting. “Am I lucky?” of course, is an appropriate theme to consider in March. So, taken from my Google search: “Whether you believe you’re lucky or unlucky is a subjective perception of how you see the world around you and interpret the events that happen to you…..One way to identify luck in your life is to appreciate the things that you DO have and be grateful for the experiences that you’ve encountered." This one paragraph leaves a lot of room for thoughtful consideration. It’s a habit for some to begin each day “counting blessings,” or things we are grateful for.  By...

Death is rough! No one is ever prepared and it isn’t easy to deal with or talk about. We lost a significant part of our family this past summer, and as an adult, the feelings that have come with that have been painful and hard to articulate, so for my young children, it must be overwhelming. I have learned that it is important to discuss what happened and to talk about it. I am in no way an expert, but here are some things that are helping me as I walk with my children through this painful process. Being Open Right Away. Telling my children shortly after it happened provided them with an explanation for the red eyes and constant tears. Allowing...

If stories of adoption and fostering in Baton Rouge are of interest, there are several great pieces on the website including stories of adoption (here and here), advice on what not to ask an adoptee, and a real life glimpse about what it is like to foster children in Louisiana. If transracial adoption is of specific interest, I'd urge you to read the book "In Their Own Voices" by Rita Simon and Rhonda Roorda.  Transracial Adoption in the Deep South Buckle your seat belts everybody because I'm about to share about a part of my life that still has some controversy surrounding it: transracial adoption. And I'm going to be as open and as real as I know how to be....

Our house has needed some happiness these past few weeks and we have found it in the Netflix Original Series Queer Eye. We have watched all of the prior seasons as well but Season 6 in Austin, Texas has taught our family some lessons that are now close to our hearts. I love that we can watch this show as a family and we all laugh and I will be honest, I normally get a little teary-eyed. Here are five lessons The Fab Five taught our family: Black can make a room look bigger.  Bobby Berk taught us that a black wall in a small space makes the space BIGGER. We have lived our lives thinking that black walls make a space...