Hiring a Birth Photographer: Have You Considered It?

“You’re hiring a what?!” was the most common reaction I got when I mentioned I was hiring a professional birth photographer. And I was living in Austin at the time…you know, the place where people ride around topless on purple unicycles (slight exaggeration), and yet I was the weirdo who wanted to record my baby’s birth. This Louisiana girl just trying to keep Austin weird, y’all! Yes, most people thought I was crazy to even consider this. Birth photography is a fairly new trend that has become immensely popular over the past few years. As someone who has utilized this service, here are some answers to a few questions I often get asked on birth photography:

So what exactly is birth photography?

Birth photography is the documentation of the labor and delivery journey from start to finish, whether it occurs in your home, the hospital, a birthing center, the car (ok, maybe not that one!) through the use of images taken by a professional (or amateur) photographer. Images are typically candid, as opposed to posed as in a newborn or family photo session, and follow the documentary style.

Couldn’t your husband have taken the photos?

Well, yes, in theory…but I wanted my husband to be my supporter throughout labor, and of course I wanted him to share in the moment of the entrance of our new baby. I didn’t want him to be fumbling around with the camera. Also, I really wanted him in those pictures of those precious first moments of us as a family, not to mention some shots of the two of us together before we became three. Additionally, though I didn’t know this before I went into labor, my journey was a difficult one and I needed him every step of the way. Therefore, we would probably have had zero photos to speak of if I had relied on him to take them.

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Was it weird having a basic stranger in the delivery room with a camera all up in your business?

Honestly, I didn’t know she was there most of the time. I had other things going on! She was very good about being inconspicuous, like a fly on the wall. However, if the thought of having someone you don’t know well in the room makes you uncomfortable, then hiring a photographer may not be right for you. Above all else, mama must be comfortable!

Is birth photography expensive?

Yes. No getting around that one. But from the photographer’s vantage point, she is on call for you 24/7 for the two weeks leading up to your birth and beyond if you go past 40 weeks. She takes no other work during that time so that she is available for your labor and delivery. Time is money, folks. The money was an issue for us at first, but even my husband would tell you that our pictures are priceless. Those moments for that baby and that birth only happened once, and we have a way to remember them forever.

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For me, I loved having a birth photographer to capture those first moments that I know would have never been so beautifully done otherwise. Another aspect I valued was that nothing was fake – the images capture the difficulty and pain that my labor brought on (I was by no means giddy during my intense labor and the pictures reflect that), and then thankfully, the sweet relief of a beautiful new life being brought into the world.

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These pictures capture the day we were never the same, yet perfectly made whole at the same time. The day we became family. And, one day, I know my little girl will adore seeing these photos as a visual of her birth story.

To learn more about birth photography and to find Baton Rouge photographers who specialize in birth, here is a good place to start. If you have additional questions for me, please ask in the comments below and I’ll do my best to answer! All pictures are used with permission from Leilani Rogers, an Austin-based professional birth photographer.

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Did you use a birth photographer?

Fleur
Fleur (which rhymes with ‘blur’ and is French for “flower,” in case you were wondering) is a former media relations and marketing professional happily turned mommy to two daughters, a spunky, sweet toddler and a roly-poly infant that is pure sunshine. She always assumed she would return to work full-time after maternity leave, but the role of Mother grabbed her by the soul, and she has been lucky to remain at home while still having an outlet as a freelance writer and the managing editor here at Red Stick Moms. A wandering heart to the core, Fleur and her husband of 10 years have traveled and lived in many places, but are happy to have returned home to Baton Rouge shortly after the birth of their first child. Based on her choices when it comes to motherhood and parenting, Fleur would likely be dubbed a “crunchy” mama, but her husband would just call it making things more complicated than they have to be…for the good of their daughters, he would TOTALLY add {wink wink}. Fleur loves Jesus, coffee, languages and words, hilarity that comes with honest conversations about this crazy little thing called life (solidarity, Sisters), photography, and the idea of sleeping through the night. She'd really love to sleep through the night.

6 COMMENTS

  1. I think it is a wonderful Idea, I had all boys 3 of them and every time they set me up in the wrong place were I could not see any of them born, this has saddened me so much and more so now as my grandchildren are being born, to this day I have not got to watch a child born and I so want to experience that unless my other daughter in-law gets pregnant she is a sweet beautiful girl, but GOD has yet to bless them with a child and they have been with each other for years, but as we know GOD can do all things, to anyone that would find this gross or wrong, well so is having dozens of nurses that you know noting about run in and out of your room and if you want to say there trained medically here is what I have to say to that, there trained to save lives but it was a nurse in a hospital that over dosed my da with chemo and killed him and instead of that hospital tell my dad what had happened they continued with the rest of the chemo treatments until his doctor called him and told him not to go back to the hospital and told him what they did and then proceeded to tell him what was going to happen because the nurse over dosed him and are you ready for the amount, he was supposed to get 80mg and she gave him 800mg nobody gets 800mg and then to continue to give him more after you killed him was just plain mean and nasty. so good for you and GOD bless but please don’t show her tell after she is pregnant or you may not get grandchildren, because oh yes it is beautiful but a young girl is going to be looking not of the beauty of it but the pain and how. be careful please sometimes things are showed to young.

    • Thanks for your comment, Jen! Yes I was lucky to snag Leilani, she is very talented and so supportive of all things birth, mamas and babies.

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