Encouragement

Single With a Purpose As a former co-dependent woman who obtained her identity and value through the lenses of the men in her life, I truly believed being single was the worst thing that could happen to me. I was so very wrong. The worst thing that could happen to me was placing my entire value on how someone else saw me and neglecting my true self. The poet Warsan Shire's poem, "For women who are difficult to love" says it best, "You can't make homes out of human beings...." Happiness consists of learning to be a whole complete person and maintaining your own self-identity whether single or in a relationship. People are not all you need to live and putting all...

Waiting in Love Do you find yourself waiting for something in frustration, doubt, fear, and anxiety? Whether it is an answer to a prayer, promotion or raise, career, new baby, a relationship, new vehicle or financial miracle, the hardest and dreadful thing to do is wait for it. I spent many nights pacing the floors doubting and crying only to still be waiting for it the next day. I even tried to reach out to family and friends, and they would say wait with expectations or keep the faith it will happen and even God's Holy word tells us in Habakkuk 2:3 "Write the vision, and make it plain on tablets, that he may run who reads it. For the vision...

What I Have Learned From Being the Single Parent Who Makes Less Money As a single mom, I have learned the value of money. I don't need that much to be happy or give my child the things that truly matter. The things that matter to a child can never be bought. While I may not be able to give my child all the material things the other parent who makes more can, I can give the following things: A Listening Ear and Understanding By being the parent that is always there, I truly listen to the changing needs and wants of my child. I know when she is no longer into unicorns, that her music now leans towards heavy metal and...

Raising Tiny Humans :: One Resolution at a Time As I sit here, sipping my coffee, and reflecting on the past year, I'm reminded of the chaos, and the joy, that comes with motherhood, dear. My kids, Jack and Jacob, are my world, my everything, But being their mom can be crazy, and make me want to pull my hair and sing! So, as we welcome a new year, I've made some resolutions, to be a better mom, and a happier me, To learn from my mistakes, and to grow, wild and free. Here are a few things we’ve learned, and won't repeat: - Criticizing others' choices, when they don't hurt others, is just not cool. - Comparing my kids to others, is a recipe for disaster, and...

Blessed, Not Stressed As I reflect on the blessings in my life, I'm reminded of God's unwavering presence and grace. This year has been filled with moments that have left me overflowing with gratitude. First and foremost, I'm thankful for the love fest that was my brother William's wedding to Kim! Witnessing their union was a joyous celebration, reaffirming the power of love and commitment. Professionally, co-teaching with my incredible mom has been an adventure. We've laughed, learned and grown together, creating unforgettable memories. You would never believe the stories we have. On a more personal note, being one of my dad's best friends has been a privilege. Supporting him through successful surgery and watching him thrive has strengthened our bond. Surrounded by fantastic...