I know what you're thinking... This is going to be another one of those mommy guilt posts. A mom laying it all out there on how hard it is to not let the guilt set in. How she rises above the influence of all the super moms out there and lives for herself and her children. BUT, it's not. While I can tell you how incredibly important it is do just that, this post is about a different type of mommy guilt: the guilt that hovers over those of us with more than one child.
I LIVE with a guilty conscience. It's a weight. A weight on my shoulders and a constant feeling that if I'd done something differently, maybe...
The recent death of beloved actor Robin Williams has really opened a lot of people's eyes to the impact that depression and suicide can have on even the most cheerful among us. Did you know that suicide is the second leading cause of death for ages 10-24? As a mom it's hard for me to wrap my head around, but as a social worker I totally get it.
Adolescence and early adulthood are tumultuous times, and kids often feel hopeless, misunderstood, and confused. Add to this a bunch of interpersonal conflict and the fact that teens are not yet capable of understanding the long term consequences of their actions, and you've got a recipe for disaster. So what can you...
Blake’s recent post, Things I Hope My Daughter Learns, got me thinking about what I hope my son learns. Of course, there are tons of things I hope he learns—how to ride a bike, how to play an instrument, how to cook a meal, and so on and so on. But I got to thinking about what I hope he learns deeply. Deep down inside his bones. What I hope he learns from me and my husband and our marriage and our faith. Things that will affect his overall life experience and, hopefully, give him a sense of joy throughout his lifetime.
1. I hope he learns stubbornness. I know I’ll probably regret saying this when he starts telling me...
Season 6 of Parenthood premieres on Thursday, September 25 (tomorrow!), and I am a ball full of emotions. If you are familiar with this show, then you know that one does not simply watch Parenthood. One gets involved. For example, on numerous occasions, I have found myself praying for the Bravermans, the family on which the show is centered. I have prayed that Max would find a true friend who would understand him and his Aspergers completely and love him unconditionally, and I wept when he found that friend in Hank (played by Ray Romano, so, I mean, come on). I have prayed for Julia and Joel that they could find reconciliation and healing in their marriage, and I have prayed...
Once I found out I was having a little boy, I was elated. I heard it from everywhere, "Oh, boys just love their mommas!" I couldn't wait for the kisses, snuggles, and crying for me and only me. Call me a bit self-absorbed, but after 10 months of carrying the boy and 21 months of nursing, I was ready to sit back and soak up all the admiration.
Buuut that never happened.
My son is the biggest daddy's boy that ever existed! And I'll be honest, I've let a 2-year-old hurt my feelings from time to time as he scraped his knee and ran past me to reach for daddy and demand his boo-boo kisses. Or when he wakes up in...
Around Baton Rouge
Oni225 :: Baton Rouge’s New Japanese Street Food Pop-Up is Worth...
Oni225 :: Baton Rouge's New Japanese Street Food Pop-Up is Worth Visiting
Oni225 came to fruition in February at the Asian Night Market when two...
